Over a year ago, my wife introduced me to a resource called Awesome Marriage. Intrigued, I signed up for their email list and soon began receiving these really thoughtful—and occasionally challenging—messages every few days. Each email is a gem, often read in less than a minute, which I think is ideal for the busy lives we lead. It’s not just about the brevity, but the quality of the thoughts shared; they’re designed to be quickly digested and applied throughout your day. Of course, they also offer other resources that are not meant to be digested so quickly.
Let me share a snippet from this morning’s email that really resonated with me:
Like anything in life, you often get out of it what you put into it.
I constantly find myself aspiring to be a better husband for my wife. Her remarkable kindness, listening skills, and empathy inspire me every day. Truly, the love and character of a spouse can be a mirror reflecting what we can become—they challenge us to grow because they deserve our best.
This desire to improve as a partner not only leads to a healthier and more fulfilling marriage, but it also motivates me to be a better father. Let’s be honest, the idea that we can neatly compartmentalize our lives is a myth. What affects one area of our lives, for better or worse, invariably influences all others. This realization, if we take it seriously, can drive us to improve.
Why settle for an okay marriage?
Why assume it can’t be better?
Take a step.
Take two steps.
I think Awesome Marriage can help.
Dr. BJ Condrey 
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