“but I am a man of prayer”

Oh Mighty Lord, my prayer life is so feeble. Make it yours. 

Tim Keller on “Dark Times”

As Keller explains, there is no such thing as "objective" abandonment for Christians. Only Christ was actually abandoned by the Father. Therefore, all that remains is "subjective" abandonment. In other words, though we may feel abandoned by God (feel = subjective), it is never the case (objective).